Six years ago i asked myself a very important question which was what is the biggest difference between those who succeed and those who fail in life? By then i was working as a finance clerk in a microfinance institution and everyday i was so angry at the job, angry at myself and angry about everything in my life. I was not feeling satisfied and did not see the potential of my future success both financially & professionally. I started seeking answers and consequently resigned from the job with no plan B and was jobless for 6 months until i got another job as an operations officer in a micro credit NGO but still was not happy, not satisfied and not feeling successful. After 8 months with this micro credit NGO i resigned and started my social entrepreneurial journey and upon venturing into entrepreneurship nobody told me i will face challenges, setbacks and difficulties. In other words my mind was not prepared. Few months as an Entrepreneur i asked myself this question again what is the biggest difference between those who succeed and those who fail in life? I started seeking answers and comparing to myself and i discovered that all successful people and entrepreneurs had all developed a successful mindset before or in the course of their entrepreneurial journey.
I discovered that i had to change my life by changing the way i think. It may look small but developing a successful mindset makes a huge difference and it is responsible for your feelings of self-worth, confidence, build your self-esteem and competence. I concluded then that if i want to measure in the same rank of successful people and social entrepreneurs am going to need a successful mindset, i needed to elevate my mindset to achieve uncommon success and i also made up my mind that if am going to fail, i will fail daring greatly. Your positive self-talk creates your reality. Is it time you rewired your brain and create new thoughts to help bring you what you want as opposed to what you don’t want
One of the major ways i discovered that could help me develop a successful mindset was positive self-talk. In life, the most important conversation is the one you have with yourself. Whether you know it or not you talk to yourself everyday so be careful what you say to yourself. Avoid negative self-talk and thoughts, plant seeds of positivity, greatness, inspiration and motivation and not abusive seeds of doubt and criticisms. I discovered that the best strategies recognize, promote, sustain optimism, hope, and joy is to intentionally fill our thoughts & day with positive self-talk.
As a Christian one of the major tools i used and am still using today is quoting specific Bible verses to me on a daily basis (I will recommend this App Inspiring Bible Verses). Ensure to always have that optimistic voice in your head that always look on the bright side. That voice inside your head whether positive or negative has a huge impact on who you are and how you live your life.
Remember don’t only accumulate this knowledge but understand and practice it.
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About the Author
Javnyuy Joybert is a Social Entrepreneur, Empowerment Coach, Public Speaker and a dynamic, prolific and strategic Entrepreneurship/Business Management Trainer/consultant and a personal efficiency strategist. He is focused, question asker, answer seeker, problem solver and purposeful young African. He is the Founder/CEO of The Center for Entrepreneurship, Leadership and Business Management Development (CELBMD) Africa – The Pan African Professional Center (www.celbmdafrica.org) which is an International Center of choice for skills/competency based Professional Executive Training/Development which cut across all levels of industry from Senior Executives to high school graduates. At CELBMD Africa we offer innovative Professional Executive Training/Development programs and capacity building seminars through the expertise of our renowned trainers, industry experts and volunteers, CELBMD Africa have Trained and Certified 8600 Executives, Leaders, Entrepreneurs, High School Dropouts who can not attend a major university, university drop outs in 26 African Countries, through Conferences and Capacity Building seminars, CELBMD Africa have empowered 18000+ across Africa in areas of Entrepreneurship, Leadership, Personal Development and Effective organisation/Business Management practices. Through CELBMD Africa Micro Credit Scheme (CAMICS), his organisation provide micro credit loans to rural/semi urban women & youths to start businesses after receiving empowerment in Entrepreneurship & Vocational skills. This project makes women/youths who are considered “unbanked” to bank by registering them on mobile money platforms and their mobile numbers are turned into account numbers. He is the Head of Njorku Career Centers (www.njorku.com), Country Director Consultant for C-Life (www.myclife.org), COO of Most Influential Young Cameroonians Initiative, YALI RLC Fellow and Consultant with several community base organizations, NGOs and SMEs across Africa. He has been nominated and has worn several local and international awards. He is the author of How to Confront The Limits (Living a More Impactul Life) – 2015, Living a Life of Divine Purpose – 2016, The Principal Things for African Young People – 2017, and Guide to Manifesting Purpose -2017. He has authored so many personal development articles that have been published on several blogs and online platforms across Africa reaching an average audience of 25000+ weekly. He has lectured Business Management courses in two private universities in Cameroon for 5 years (2012-2016), He is A World at School Global Youth Ambassador and has been featured on numerous publications across the world regarding his contributions to mother Africa.